By darwin
Date: 2003 May 16
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domesticity

there are three weeks and one day now.  until i wear the virginal white, and you sport a tuxedo with spongebob boxers underneath.  when we will be standing in a garden filled with family we are obligated to invite, and the friends we rarely see.  but at least we will be gazing at each other, trying not to laugh because we are so giddy.  it doesn't matter if we surrounded by these people, because we are at least enveloped in each other.  over the past weeks i've been thinking about the importance of marriage, and how can a husband and wife be the most significant thing in each others lives?? then I think of you, and how my breath holds still right before i see you, and how my body sleeps better, when naked next to yours.  

perhaps it's just the way that things go, when you find that person who likes deviating from normal societal rules with you that you can deviate in a comfy cozy sort of modern domesticity.  with three cats and a few plants smattered here and there.

but where was I?  yes, walking down aisle.  and i can't wait for that moment, when we say I do, and we leap off and say mazel tov or hell yeah!  then we eat a burger and ride off into the sunset in a foreign car.  

that's the american dream isn't?