Don't theorize about your own romances, friend. Be thrilled, be ecstatic, 
be desolate, but don't be an expert about you and the people you love and 
why it happened. With love, the pleasure is in the details, not in the 
theory. Love has to do with her eyes, the touch of her hand, her voice, 
her laughter, how it felt to stand next to her and feel her brush against 
you, how it felt to see her after a long absence. Love isn't a Problem to 
sit around and discuss. If your heart still longs for her, then you are 
in love, and her idea about why it didn't work out is something that may 
give her consolation but it doesn't mean anything to you or me.  
--Mr. Blue