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From: mrom140895
Date: 1 February 1998

   To  a man that I really love but  I can't tell him how much 
I love him;  My relationship with Chris it just a secrete,

because I can't tell my father about him yet , cause my 

father told me , he would like to see me graduate from 

college, before I decide to get involve with a man.

  I am 22 years old and I feel I can't whet after I graduate

from college.  And  also  I would love for my dad to know 

that he's baby girl have some sexsually needs too, for me 
to be able to forfeel these need  I'll have, to have a 
boyfriend.   I LOVE CHRIS A LOT FOR THE PERSON 
THAT HE IS.   CHRIS IS MY ANGEL, HEART, SWEET 

CANDY.   "CHRIS IS EVERYTHING THAT A WOMAN

WOULD EVER  NEEDS.      " I  LOVE YOU  BABY"    

From: Tonya
Date: 2 February 1998

I just recently stumbled on the Blender & I absolutely
LOVE it!  Keep it up, I'll definately be back...

From: George Shull  leopard99@hotmail.com
Date: 2 February 1998

All that I can say is that I love this page.

From: George Shull  leopard99@hotmail.com
Date: 2 February 1998

Hey Jermey,

I got a question for you.  Do you go to Munford High School?
If not your poem is good.  If you do go to Munford your poem 
sucks.  Later.

Date: 3 February 1998

where is missing you?
I cant find it?
it was summited on Feb 2, 1998

From: Jennifer Rutherford
Date: 5 February 1998

I loved your ramble on Titanic, and I completely agree with 
your thought that Jack shouldn't have died. I am so sick of
these needless-death-only-to-milk-the-tragedy-of-life things
ruining a good love movie. I haven't seen the movie and plan
to never see it (and this is coming from someone who's read 
a lot of Titanic books), no matter how good it is, because I
know he's going to die.
I like the idea of "Love Blender: The Movie." What would
the plot be?
Jennifer Rutherford

From: Jose S. Gutierrez Jr., jsgutier@wsunix.wsu.edu
Date: 5 February 1998

I was wondering if I could have the E-mail address, so I 
could send some poetry?

From: Heather
Date: 5 February 1998

I like this page its really cool

Date: 6 February 1998

mrom, 
Don't you think a 22-year old college student should 
have better grammar and spelling than that?

From: Stephen
Date: 7 February 1998

Very good material. 
I enjoyed reading all that
I had time for.
Keep it up.
thanks

From: Name:lifang, E-mail Address:slchen@tm.net.my
Date: 8 February 1998

A question to ask...
 I just can'i remember the origin of this sentence....
"Love means never having to say you're sorry."
Can somebody tell me ?

From: minx82342
Date: 8 February 1998

THIS IS JUST BEAUTIFUL.
NEVER LEAVE ME,TILL DEATH DO US PART.........

From: ???
Date: 8 February 1998

Dear Dan Rugman.

I love your smile Dan, Ireally can't get you out of my head
I know you're much oldder but the more I think of you the 
harder it is to come to terms with the fact that you're not 
mine.some day you'll notice me.

forever yours

     ???

From: Laura
Date: 8 February 1998

Dear Dan

 I love you so much I can't come to terms with the fact that
you're not mine.A nyone will tell you  that without your warm 
smile on thier face thier world is empty ,espsially mine. 
  Just say the word and I'll be there to stand by you through
thick and thin.
  love 
      LAUSY

From: met
Date: 8 February 1998

love means never having to say your sorry is from love story 
by eric segal a novel and a movie with ali mcgraw and ryan o'neal

From: lizistan
Date: 9 February 1998

hello my love bunneys 
its ok not to have anyone to send a card to but hay who cares 
because i do !! ha!ha!

From: lizistan
Date: 9 February 1998

here is something to send u floting away when u read this card.
roses are red,
violets are blue,
how did u now,
i've got a crush on u?

From: BAMBI
Date: 10 February 1998

From: George Shull  leopard99@hotmail.com
Date: 10 February 1998

To anyone out there:

What are some good things to give your girlfriend on Valentines
day?  I already got a stuffed animal and a poem.  Any other
sweet and romantic idea's.  Please, no diamonds or whatnot
I am just a poor little teenager.  Thanks.  Later

From: Jessica  purr_mrow@hotmail.com
Date: 10 February 1998

George:  cup her face in her hands, kiss her gently, and say 
 "I love you"  but only if you mean it.  Give her something 
meaningful to your relationship.  it will show that you really 
care and are worth holding on to.  this holiday is not 
about money...neither is any other. always remember that.

keep up the good work to all who have submitted...i'm still 
waiting for my own personal influences...but i'm too clouded
with love to get my creativity flowing.

Date: 11 February 1998

I love this site
I have to thank u
poets for the amazing
poetrys...

From: E
Date: 12 February 1998

Thanks sooo much!!!  This just saved my hiney in a grad course!
The poems were all lovely and wonderful.  I will definitely be 
visiting again.  E

From: Jean
Date: 14 February 1998

Great web sight - I love a romantic.  O.K., I know I should
know this but what is the name of the poem that begins (I
believe) with:

Come live with me and be my love
And we shall ....?

It's very sentimental and I'd love to find it, can you help?

Hearts and flowers,

Jean

From: katgrs  kimbers@eagle.ptialaska.net
Date: 14 February 1998

Jean,
Here's that piece you wanted.  It's a beautiful one. 

The Passionate Shepherd to His Love

Come live with me and be my love,
And we will all the pleasures prove
That valleys, groves, hills, and fields,
Woods, or steepy mountain yields.

And we will sit upon rocks,
Seeing the shepherds feed their flocks,
By shallow rivers to whose falls
Melodious birds sing madrigals.

And I will make thee beds of roses
And a thousand fragrant poises,
A cap of flowers, and a kirtle
Embroidered all with leaves of myrtle;

A gown made of the finest wool
Which from our pretty lambs we pull;
Fair lined slippers for the cold,
With buckles of the purest gold;

A belt of straw and ivy buds,
With coral clasps and amber studs;
And if these pleasures may thee move,
Come live with me, and be my love.

The shepherds's swains shall dance and sing
For thy delight each May morning:
If these delights thy mind may move,
Then live with me and be my love.

                 Christopher Marlowe
                        1599 

Date: 14 February 1998

Stein is awsome

From: tiamat_4@hotmail.com
Date: 15 February 1998

Kirk,
About this time last year, i put a few of my poems on this page.  
I wanted to tell you that i absolutely love your work.  I was wondering 
if you could help me.  I want to try to find a site offering free web 
pages and design my own.  Since you  have done a great job with your own, 
do you think you could assist me in my efforts?  Also, when done, i want 
to have a link on my page to your page.  

if you could, that would be great.  please let me know.
thanks.
katie.

From: George Shull  leopard99@hotmail.com
Date: 16 February 1998

Thank's everyone,

     Thanks to all for their help in helping me find the 
perfect gift for my girlfriend.  It simply is love.  Thanks
Gwen and Jessica.  
     Hey Jessica.  Write something that shows how you feel.
I'm clouded with love,
So i can't say how I feel,
Yet I know what I want,
And I know this is real.
     I know it's corny but hey, love is every thing.  Good 
luck.  Later

Date: 16 February 1998

More tongue pictures!

From: Tally
Date: 16 February 1998

I wonder if anyone would like to discuss love... I mean
the true soul-mate type of devotion.  You see... I have
a history of long, fun relationships that I end as soon 
as seriousness and forever enter the picture.

Now, I am in my first after college ("real life")
relationship.  We are always around eachother and we are
genuinely happy, but how do I know...

How do I know if it is the one.  How do I know that I will
not freak out like the other times?  My two special 
college relationships seemed like the real thing... but 
I grew tired and broke it off.  I mean tired only after
four and two years, respetively.  By then, I had to break
hearts to leave... I am tired of doing that.  I don't want
to break this boy's heart.

I fall in love and cause men to fall in love with me.  Many
think that is a blessing, but they don't see how much pain
I cause.  I just cut out... how can I commit to someone if 
I know I may want to leave two more years down the line?

Well, that is it... maybe my story isn't told so well, but 
hopefully, the basis of my question came across.

From: Jessica    purr_mrow@hotmail.com
Date: 16 February 1998

George...you're welcome :)  And the mood just hasn't slapped 
me yet :)  

And don't worry...it wasn't corny...far from it.

Love is, and that's all.

From: wanderingfire
Date: 17 February 1998

I love the poem CyberSez.  It is a mirror of what I'm
feeling for a man I've written to for 4 months.  Good job
to Darren (20 November 1997)

From: Jessica  purr_mrow@hotmail.com
Date: 17 February 1998

Hi guys!  sorry for the extra blank space at the end of that
last poem.  didn't know it was going to do that. I have a 
stupid computer sometimes.  I wrote Hazy Days a while ago...
and thought i would finally submit it.  hope you enjoy.

From: George Shull  leopard99@hotmail.com
Date: 18 February 1998

Talley,
    Hey what's up.  Life is funny.  Nothing is ever definite
and for sure.  Feelings change by the second and we can't guess
them or control them.  No one knows how they will feel 2 years,
2 months, 2 weeks, or even 2 days from now.  All we have is hope.
I can't say that you will find your soul-mate and know he is the
one right away.  That would be to easy.  Life is just like that.
You have to search for someone you love and who loves you back.
But I'll leave you with this.  Is the price of searching, maybe your
whole life, for your soulmate worth it.  Even if you only spend
a few minutes with your love?  Later.  Live and Love.
       § Snow Leopard §  

From: Tally
Date: 20 February 1998

Snow leopard,

Thank you for your thoughtful insight.  I do think the 
search for the "one" is well worth the time.  I have
committed to one thing and that is the principle of 
never settling for an individual.  I think it is important
for myself, as well as the people I have been loving
with.  Now, I pose another question:  Is this a selfish
way to proceed?  I have become very close to two (now on 
three) men in my lifetime.  I love who each of them are...
I took me years of finding out about them to know that I 
may love them, but to stay with them would be settling.  
By that time, each was determined that I was the "one" for
them.  I never intended to break their hearts, but it
happened.  So, back to my question... no, onto a deeper
question... am I a bad person because I cause so much 
pain in the lives of men that I care deeply about?

I don't know.  I guess I am asking questions that I know 
the answers to... there really isn't much doubt in my mind
that you have to allow yourself and others to be close.  
Not just to find your soul mate, but because you are human.
I just really hate doing it (the break up).  I hate that I 
always know when I am happy, but looking for more out of a 
mate.  I want the world, and unfortunately, I don't know if 
anyone is equipped handle that request.  

I want to be thankful every morning that I was lucky 
enough to share the bed with a wonderful soul.  I want 
to step back and enjoy how my sweetheart brightens up 
the ethos of a room.  I want someone to hold himself 
up to the high standard to which I subscribe.  I would 
like intelligent conversation that enlightens and 
broadens my point of view.  Someone who argues
with strong points instead of strong words.  What else...
well I also want a nuturing spirit that understands the 
ideal of peace and harmony.  One who values life and energy
more than money and power... one who sees that the greatest
thing that two people could do is to join together to make
a world with such a love force... such a glow, that nothing
in the relm of reality could daunt their spirit.  I would 
like this grounded free thinker... I would like this world.

The world... that isn't too much to look for, is it?!?!
You know, when you refer to something as the world, it 
seems impossible that you could have soo much trouble
finding it!!

-Tally  

From: George Shull  leopard99@hotmail.com
Date: 20 February 1998

Tally,
  Out of all those virtues that you named, there is only one
place that I have found them.  In my dreams.  The problem with
love is that it is untamed.  You'll never find what you are
truely looking for until love wants you to.  The world is not
to much to ask, I think so at least.  It just depends on what
you do with it when you get it.  
  Everyone has to be close to someone, even if it isn't your
knight in shining armor or a damsel in distress.  Humans are 
funny creatures.  We love, cherrish, and eventually drift away
at the prospect of something more.  I hate breaking up with a
passion.  But as all things must come to an end it is an adamant
part of love that I can't avoid.  Humans are great and weak. 
And love can harm or heal.  
  One thing I've learned about love is that you have to cherrish
it while you have it.  I'm dating a girl right now and all that
I can think about, and will let myself think about is how much
she makes me happy.  I never try to think of when we will or 
might break up.  Pain, both real and imagined, vanish from my
mind.  I can't thank her enough for my happiness.  I just hope
I can make her feel as happy as I.  The pain that comes to both
people in the midst of a break up, at least for me, can only be
consolidated with that happiness that you both brought each 
other. 
  Never settling for an individual.  That is a tough rule to 
live by.  I try not to restrict my love to my principles.  I 
only do that with people I think might be "the one".  If they
arn't I go with the love, living and learning.  No one's principles
on love and life are never wrong.  Each one is tailored to each
person's loves, losses, and experiences.  If you want to know my
virtues, ideas, and philosophies on love check out the December 
issue of Love blender under Heart and Sheive.  Or something like
that.  The last word is probably wrong.  It is titled "My simple
philosophy on 'life/love"  It is something like that.  
  Well I'll let you ponder on this little letter and what it
contains.  Later.  And remember Live and Love.
   § Snow Leopard §

From: Lester, lester_g@writeme.com
Date: 22 February 1998

Tally,

   There are times we are looking so hard we fail to realize
that what we are looking for is right under our nose.  

   I pray that someday you find the right guy.  I pray that 
he's the one you're with now.  And most of all, I pray that 
when you do finally find the "one", he'll be looking your 
way too!

   Just remember, it's better to love people not because of,
but inspite of who they are.  That is true love.

   God Bless!

              - Lester

From: 
Date: 22 February 1998

Tally,

This may be harsh.  But sometimes you have to stop looking
at what you WANT, but maybe at yourself and what you GIVE, 
and what you can have together.

Sometimes you can't see the forest for the trees.  In other
words, what we look for is usually right in front of us. 
You never get what you want when you're looking for it.

And before you know it, you have nothing.  You've looked 
at all the sticks and branches and trees and suddenly you've 
walked out of the forest (to further the metaphor).  No more 
choices, and the world is no longer yours to have.

It's not, "what can you do for me," but "what can we do together."

From: Rodrig42@matrix.newpaltz.edu
Date: 22 February 1998

Hi, My name is Inez Rodriguez and I was looking for a poem 
or two that reflect my own style of writing, never would I
have imagined that I would come across a page where my exact
feelings were in front of me, written by someone else! This
site is truly impressive and I will hopefully submit a few
of my works very soon. Keep up the awesome work, each entry
is indeed beautiful.

From: Heather  dreamheather@hotmail.com
Date: 22 February 1998

Thank you Kirk,
Because of the opportunity you have given me with the "Blender"
I was informed this week that my poem "Fall into my Arms",
is now Copyrighted and will be published in a poerty book being 
published in May 1998.
This site gave me the courage to submit my work for 
consideration for publication, and THEY LIKED IT!!!
Thank you!!

From: 
Date: 23 February 1998

I read your critique of the movie and enjoyed it. However, I disagree.
If Jack had not died, Rose would not have pried herself from another
degree of personal prison. She probably would have ended up codependent
on Jack, and so his death left her stronger to seek out a life of her
own, to choose love on her own terms. Even in death, she sought out her
own heaven ... the Heart of the Sea was her personal bargaining chip. A
lot of suffering went along with that diamond, but she made it worth joy
by keeping it from the covetous hands of wealth seekers. She had wealth,
knew what it was like to live in wealth, and kept the wealth of the
diamond from infiltrating others who sought what she ultimately escaped.
 
The script could have been more intelligent ... but our hero and heroine
were only teenagers. Not thinking much, but loving each other a lot.

From: George Shull  leopard99@hotmail.com
Date: 23 February 1998

Tally,
   You got alot of good advice from everyone who submitted
suggestions and support.  Good luck and best wishes for the
"one". Drop me a line if you feel like it.
   To the un-named person with the lovely metaphore.  Good
advice.  I have a point to add.  You can't always see what's 
infront of you because it is not always there.  You have to 
look for what you want.  I'm not talking about searching 
every branch and twig but keep an eye open.  Well good luck
to you all who are searching for the compliment to your life.

  § Snow Leopard §

From: K. Smith (trouvere@mailexcite.com)
Date: 23 February 1998

I have read, & I own, Jack Gilbert's "The Great Fires".
It is an excellent selection of poetry. I initially bought
the book after I heard Jack Gilbert read some of his work.
I was incredibly moved by the personal and emotional content
of his poetry.(I actually cried when he read his poem
"Married".) I recommend this collection to anybody.

From: poppy <cho_ela@rocketmail.com>
Date: 24 February 1998

I think whether or not leonardo dicaprio (jack dawson) had 
or had not died in the movie is a trivial thing.
It was so moving to see him sacrifice his life for Rose.
In the end, they were united again anyway.

Date: 25 February 1998

Just saw the movie, "Good Will Hunting" and was thoroughly
entertained and moved by the theme. I recommend it highly.
Ah, love for love's sake.

Date: 26 February 1998

I would've liked to see Jack live too, but I'm glad he died,
not b/c i didn't like him. But if he had lived that would've
made the movie so fairy-talish.  My boyfriend says that if
Rose had just stayed on the boat, he would've survived.
this is my first time seeing this page. i just wanted to 
respond to a comment someone had made on Jack dying in 
Titanic. Whether or not he lived, that's just the way the
story goes... the effects and music is still great!

From: artparker@aol.com
Date: 27 February 1998

Excuse me, but WHAT is this about????

>>From: E
>>Date: 12 February 1998
>>
>>Thanks sooo much!!!  This just saved my hiney in a grad >>course!
>>The poems were all lovely and wonderful.  I will >>definitely be 
>>visiting again.  E
 
Can you explain this E?  How did this site save your hiney?

hats off to elizabeth of 5 Feb great stuff, hope you write 
some more . . .
and Pril_g on 8 Feb with Hey Moron!

 Hey I Loved IT! 

 Alan B

From: 
Date: 27 February 1998

Kirk, I love the idea! YES The Love Blender, kind of a kink
take-off on the Love Boat! Or maybe, Blender of Love, The Movie
(Those with weak hearts may wish to stay in the lobby)

Really, all you have to do is get the concept kicked around a
few times in Hollywood, and you could end up with ten scripts!
Seriously!  There are people Desparate for script idea's out
there. 
Seriously, good commentary on the movie.
Keep up the great work!
 Alan B

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