Few songs have seemed so true to life as Paul Simon's
Tenderness. It's from "There Goes Rhymin' Simon,"
one of his first solo albums. It's the intelligence of the lyrics that really sets Simon's work apart; a poetry teacher I had describe as one of America's finest poets and I believe that to be true. Tenderness brings home an important point, that we can't afford to mistake honesty for compassion: What can I do What can I do Much of what you say is true I know you see through me But there's no tenderness Beneath your honesty Right and wrong Right and wrong Never helped us get along You say you care for me But there's no tenderness Beneath your honesty You and me were such good friends What's your hurry? You and me could make amends I'm not worried I'm not worried Honesty Honesty It's such a waste of energy No you don't have to lie to me Just give me some tenderness Beneath your honesty You don't have to lie to me Just give me some tendernessI've always believed that people should be open, but brutal honesty can hurt more than it helps. Simon is as careful with his arranging as with his lyrics, and the Dixie Hummingbirds (the black gospel/doo-wop group that sings the background of this piece) adds a rich texture. This is a song that grabs a place in your brain that it will never fully abandon. You can order There Goes Rhymin' Simon from Amazon.Com for less than 12 bucks, and if you use that link to do so the Blender of Love gets a bit of a kickback. (Amazon also has a Real Audio sample of several of the works.) It's a wonderful album, and also features Paul Simon's love song "Something So Right". If you're feeling like a big spender, you can get the three disc set 1964/1993, kind of a greatest hits collection. The book that comes with it has commentary by Paul Simon himself on all the included songs from his 70s-early 80s solo period, including Tenderness. |