By un known
Date: 16 September 1999

LETTING GO!!!!

Letting go does not mean to stop caring:
it means I cant do it for someone else.
letting go is not to cut my self off:
its the realization I can't control another.
Letting go is not the enable:
but to allow learningfrom natural consequences.
Letting go is to admit powerlessness:
which means the outcome is not in my hands.
Letting go is not totry to change or blame another:
its to make the most of myself.
Letting go is not to care for: but to care about!

Letting go is not to fix: but to be supportive.
It's not to judge but to allow another to be a human being.
letting gois not to bein the middle arranging the out come:
but to allow others to affect thier own destinies.
Letting gois notto be protective:
its to permit another to face reality.
Letting go is not to deny: but to accept.

Letting go is not to nag,scold or argue:
but instead to search out my own shortcomings and correct them.

Letting go is not to adjust everything to my own desires:
but to take each day as it comes and to cherish myself in it.
Letting go is not to criticize and regulate anybody:
but to try to become what I dream I can be.
Letting go is to not regret the past!
but to grow and live for the future.
Letting go is to fear less and live more!

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