By witty
Date: 2001 Jul 02
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Please Listen

I ask you to listen to me.
Halfway through my story
You start giving me advice.

I ask you to lend an ear.
Midway through my pain
You tell me I shouldn't feel that way.

I ask you to listen to me.
You feel you have to solve my problem.
I didn't ask for a solution.

I don't need advice.
Advice is cheap.
You can find it in newspapers for a few pesos' worth.

Don't talk --- just hear me out.
I can fend for myself.
I am not helpless, only discouraged
Do not say you know how I feel
Because you don't.  Nobody does.

I am in the middle of my fears and inadequacies.
Don't contribute by doing something for me
that I can do for myself.
I pour my heart out
And talk of my burdens
Because I need a shared moment.
Just hold my hand
In silent understanding
And I shall be relieved.

When I get over these muddled feelings,
I'll be clearing problems on my own
I won't need advice.

Perhaps prayer works for people
because God is mute.
He doesn't try to fix things.
He merely listens and lets you work it out for yourself

When it's your turn someday,
I shall also be here if you wish
Sharing in your troubled moments

But quietly,
quietly listening.

  
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(jojie aka witty)