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By ~Harem~ Submitted by ~Harem~ Date: 2008 Sep 23 Comment on this Work [[2008.09.23.18.54.30626]] |
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We're creatures of habit, especially when the experience is positive. We want it to last forever, or at least a repeat performance. Our hearts yell, "Encore, Encore" - "Again, Again" - Do it to me one more time. Make my heart leap, give me goose bumps, Oh - it must be Love. But much to our dismay, so much passion is not always indicative of deeper feelings. The passion might never be repeated - or may be lessened with each encounter. That physical ecstasy can be had between people that hardly know each other - much less care for their feelings. Some people make "love" with people that they don't even like. It's so ironic when you think about it. Often sexual passion has nothing to do with liking someone. Maybe they just like what they look like physically - or how they feel in their arms - and that's all. Then why cling to those who do this with us ? Why agonize over someone that has found it so easy - to just walk away ? We should recognize the trist for what it is. Why are we often more attracted to the on-again, off-again treatment ? Why is it that the "always there" - steady treatment - often bores us ? We humans are but Fools that enjoy pain. We crave whatever we think is unattainable. We want what we can't have. We chase after every butterfly that gets away. We run like Fools after every dream that presents itself and then vanishes. We have not learned to protect our own hearts. We allow others to punch and kick our souls just for a thrill or a Fake performance of caring. But oh, if we would be kinder to ourselves. and only allow the good, comfortable, fine, happy, feelings into our homes and hearts. If our primitive vibes would work - we would banish all wrong treatment from our caves. and we would never be a slave - to anyone. But then I also notice that three - quarters of the people that I work with - seem to be happiest when they are complaining. Only the nerds seem to thrive on contentment. That's what my friends call people that always seem to be happy, and live in their own protected world. They call them "Nerds". I learned to be a nerd, and it took a lot of practice and failures - but hey - The Nerds are Feeling - "Good". ``````` |