Max-Rom, about Comparitively Speaking:
Very beautiful stuff MAX -
But I small warning - Never base your
life or your existence on just one person. Why ?
It puts that person in an uncomfortable position. Tis better to be in love with a whole person - rather than one who only becomes complete with your presence in their life.
If you are already whole - before meeting her - you become someone that she can lean on when needed.
Your completeness will only make the relationship stronger and more desireable.
No one wants just half a cookie - or a half piece of cake.
Likewise - if she should leave - you'd fall apart and that's not good for you either.
Loving someone does not mean that you have to become a parasite that is incomplete without them.
Please don't take me the wrong way - I just felt compelled to say this.
Great work and beautiful writing.
Life is not always as ethereal as we would like it to be. We have to mix reality with dreams.
Thanks
~Harem~
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~Harem~ -- Thanks so much for your generous comments on my latest. I do understand that when two people become romantically involved they, in essence, are part of one another. I know that when you love someone so much, sometimes you put yourself on the "back burner" and put their needs, wants, desires, etcetera above your own. I find happiness in everyday things, but also find great joy in the company of my lover. If one finds him\herself empty without a relationship however, then maybe that person may have not yet found their own true joy. Quite insightful your comments, and i do appreciate them greatly.