By Sophie's Mom
Submitted by lilla
Date: 2003 Mar 12
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I remain

To my darling Sophie,

I gave you life, but cannot live it for you.
I can teach you things, but cannot learn them for you.
I can give you direction, but I cannot always be there to lead you.
I can allow you freedom, but I cannot account for it.
I can take you to church, but I cannot make you believe.
I can teach you right from wrong, but I cannot decide for you.

I can buy you beautiful clothes, but I cannot make you beautiful inside.
I can offer you advice, but I cannot accept it for you.
I can give you love, but I cannot force it upon you.
I can teach you to share, but I cannot make you unselfish
I can teach you respect, but I cannot compel you to show honor.

I can enlighten you about friends, but cannot choose them for you.
I can counsel you about sex, but I cannot keep you pure.
I can tell you the facts of life, but I cannot build your reputation.
I can caution you about drink, but I cannot say "no" for you.
I can warn you about drugs, but I cannot make the choice for you.

I can tell you about lofty goals, but I cannot achieve them for you.
I can teach you about kindness, but I cannot make you compassionate and graceful.
I can warn you about sins, but I cannot make you moral.
I can love you as a child, but I cannot place you in God's family.
I can pray for you, but I cannot make you walk with God.
I can teach you about Jesus, but I cannot make Jesus your Lord.
I can tell you how to live, but I cannot give you eternal life

                                   Mommy