Harem: You got me thinkin there ... am workin on my listin now, hopin to post it in a lil while. And thanks also for noticing my works :).
BTW, I always am fascinated with the name Lillian, Lilli :)... in my opinion, these names are better said, heard than read :)... my nick lilla is actually a name i would love to give in case id have another daughter ... its also some kind of mutation of my fave color "lilac" ;)
Kirk ... thanks much for Front Page Pick ... i always wanted to give a taste of Filipino in loveblender :) ... so the drama was kinda intentional you know ... jusz kiddin' ... Cheers and be well. Oh btw, i so adore the blender in watercolor ...it looks soooo candy sweet.
Wow - The response to my writing challenge has been truly amazing so far.
I have learned that different people think, feel, and act so differently. Which of course, I had expected.
The responses so far - show a lot about
the people who wrote them.
Read them yourself and see what I mean.
When I read Lilla's response I was able to picture her in her home with her man and how they interact with each other on a very intense level. I can see and feel their strong emotions and heated love. Lilla listed all of her negative points first - and then she listed all her positive thoughts last. (perhaps a way to make the positive be her last thoughts and shows her way of dealing with obstacles.)? Is it possible she listed the negative ones first - because they stand out in her mind as foremost in her life?
While "Bighead" lists the good and bad (back-to-back) - like a way of conquering the bad with the good?
When I read Bighead (where did you get
that name from ?) and see a completely
different family with varying degrees
of tenderness and little annoyances.
And I notice that the negative thoughts,
are immediately hit - with stronger postive thoughts - showing a very strong loving relationship. bing-bam
bing-bam conquering negative thoughts
immediately with positive ones.
Wow, this gives such insight into people's lives and how they deal with the obstacles in their relationships.
I see So many cute and tender things being revealed - that I bet you never told anyone else before.
I also noticed that B.K. listed her positive ones first (like I did) - which leads me to believe that she feels the "good" stuff as being first and foremost in her life - despite obstacles.
B.K. and Lilla also made me realize that I am not the only one who has had trouble with the other person's family or friends.
These are just some of my observations while reading the "writer's challenge" of pros and cons - so far.
I'm not making any judgments, but just sitting back and enjoying what I am learning from this fun format.
Who's Next ?
Did it help anyone to learn more about themselves and their relationships ?
thanks
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