Love illusions are very famous. He says "I never really loved you. 
I mean, not really." She says, "What?" "Not once," he says, 
"in the last thirty-two years." "Not even that week in Santa Cruz?" 
He says, feeling the honor of truthfulness, "No." He says, 
"Not deeply really. No. It was an illusion, but not untill 
disillusionment. Before that, it was a fact. It was love."
	--Grace Paley