From: <a href="/blend/av.cgi?id=1103">ladyinwaiting</a><BR>
Date: 15 December 2003<P>

Tang ~ your comment is very touching and holds true to myself as I am sure with many others...thank you<BR>
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wolf ~ my heart bleeds for you...I pray you find peace...<BR>
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star ~ maybe just maybe our wish will come true after todays events...thank you for the comment...<BR>
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rennie ~ nice to see you again...wishing you happiness...<BR>
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aparajita ~ beautiful cleansing work on this star lite evening...<BR>
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kirk ~ my prayers are with you during this time...<BR>
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From: <a href="/blend/av.cgi?id=1176">aparajita</a><BR>
Date: 15 December 2003<P>

lady:  thanks for the comment and the chat.  i miss having you to talk to.  so glad you have found your haven and looking forward to hearing about your fab Christmas.  we will talk again soon.
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From: <a href="/blend/av.cgi?id=1139">jwb71913</a><BR>
Date: 15 December 2003<P>

Kirk, Tanqueray Cowboy reminded me that I've not ever thanked you for creating this community.  I can't tell you how much it means to me personally to be able to write here.  Sometimes in our grief we are unable to see farther than our own needs.<BR>
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Thank you for giving us this place where we may bleed on a page without being afraid,,,, Jim
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From: <a href="/blend/av.cgi?id=1139">jwb71913</a><BR>
Date: 15 December 2003<P>

The only common denominator in my failed relationships is me
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From: <a href="/blend/av.cgi?id=1176">aparajita</a><BR>
Date: 15 December 2003<P>

jim...  wow, now that is a thought provoking statement if i have ever heard one.  i must begin the painful process of discovering why the only common for me is me too.  thanks, i think.  :)
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From: <a href="/blend/av.cgi?id=902">spaded</a><BR>
Date: 15 December 2003<P>

now aparajita, do not go reading too much into that comment!!<BR>
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Jwb keep in mind that on the surface the only common denominator in anyones failed relationships is them. That goes for the persons whom you have been in these relationships with too. <BR>
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You know the saying... you have to spend lots time with lots of the wrong people so when the right person comes along you appreciate them all the more.<BR>
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Of course if you are a real jerk, all this is null and void and you have a problem buddy...<BR>
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Just Kidding, I doubt that is the case, and I am sure you see my point. ;)<BR>
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So here is to finding your ONE...<BR>
CHEERS<BR>
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spaded
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From: <a href="/blend/av.cgi?id=48">Laurel Ahlfeld</a><BR>
Date: 15 December 2003<P>

~*~aparajita~*~ Thanks so much. As always, your encouragement is a blessing that keeps me going. I'm so glad to see you posted!! What a wonderful piece, too.
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From: <a href="/blend/av.cgi?id=1176">aparajita</a><BR>
Date: 15 December 2003<P>

spaded and laurel:  thanks to both of you for the encouragement.  happy thoughts coming your way!
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From: <a href="/blend/av.cgi?id=1103">ladyinwaiting</a><BR>
Date: 15 December 2003<P>

harmonica ~ The End...beautifully written my dear...thank you...<BR>
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jim ~ your comment holds true for all of us...wish you well...<BR>
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pam ~ praying you are still holding on to the positive side...think of you often...<BR>
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kase ~ miss your visits...hope all is well with you...<BR>
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empy ~ where have you been...hope all is well with you...<BR>
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arkguy ~ you graced us briefly with your words and dissapear...hope life is good with you...<BR>
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aparajita ~ guess what...yes i got lost again...but this time it was in the store just trying to find my way out :)
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From: <a href="/blend/av.cgi?id=1176">aparajita</a><BR>
Date: 15 December 2003<P>

lady:<BR>
GUESS WHAT??!!  if you have not already listened to your cell voice mail you need to do that right away...  i have some good news!  i got my acceptance letter into the flight nurse training!!  hooooooooorrrrrrraaaaaaayyyy!!!!  :)
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From: <a href="/blend/av.cgi?id=1103">ladyinwaiting</a><BR>
Date: 15 December 2003<P>

iLYd ~ I just read through your work and all I can say is WOW...just to be loved like that...this person you love is a very lucky person...keep writing and I shall keep reading...thank you
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From: <a href="/blend/av.cgi?id=1103">ladyinwaiting</a><BR>
Date: 15 December 2003<P>

aparajita ~ CONGRATS...yeppie yeppie...we shall share hugs on saturday...<BR>
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EVERYONE...she will be the best flight nurse ever...
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From: <a href="/blend/av.cgi?id=1">Kirk, Blender-Keeper</a><BR>
Date: 15 December 2003<P>

----------SHIRT UPDATE------------<BR>
I just got payment (check or money order) from:<BR>
darwin, ladyinwaiting/aparajita, spaded, Cessie, Violet<BR>
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tomorrow I am sending shirts to:<BR>
darwin, elocution, Just Some Girl<BR>
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which means I'm waiting for money from:<BR>
elocution, Just Some Girl<BR>
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and I haven't heard from:<BR>
indefensible sushi, Angel<BR>
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so there shirts are on the verge of being forfeit; I have to see if I need to recycle 'em as christmas gifts or if I can offer them for sale.
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