| Ali | Yes, I've done that on more than one occasion (I will talk to just about anybody...lol) Sometimes the person turns out to be nice, as well as attractive. Other times, they open they mouth to speak and I want to run away immediately (the beauty's there, but the brains are gone...lol). It's always worth a try, to talk to people that you've never met. Carpe Diem. *smile* |
| Misti | I've done this once outside of a bar. It was my first semester of college. The first summer session. I'd noticed this hot guy in my history class. One day I was walking to the park across from campus to sunbathe and I saw him headed in the same direction. So I approached him and we hung out together. We had a study session that night. Nothing much came of it because I was shy and his girlfriend called me in tears. I wasn't bold enough to pursue it but it was intoxicating while it lasted. |
| Just Some Girl | Yes!! I recently met a guy that way. He was working a booth at a travel show. Since I knew he'd be there a bit, I went and bought some Godiva chocolate. I took it right up to him and introduced myself. It worked. He said it was the most flattering thing a girl had ever done!! |
| jackryhme | lol which country? met a sales clerk in hongkong who's clearst english was that she hated me, at dinner, dancing, that night, in the morning and over the next four days we were together lol have to admit the first night i was kinda nervous but so is life... jack |
| muryan | I did. It was in my new Acting class, which somehow give me powers of forwardness. Anyway, I saw T.J. across the stage, and I thought he was just awesome. So mysterious looking. I went over to him and introduced myself, he did likewise, and we began to talk. He made me laugh. That spurred many long talks together in the food court of the college center, and he became a dear friend, even though he was still quite an enigma to me. He was still someone I would have liked to date. We never did date, and he hasn't come back this year. He's staying home. I don't know if I'll ever see him again. But I hope I do. But I'm totally glad that I did actually talk to him, he's a wonderful person. I miss my Sunset Friend. |
| splatipus | Very rarely. I am completely useless at chatting people up and on the odd occasion I did have a go, I ended up saying the stupidest things and feeling like a complete idiot. All of my relationships began from either them asking me out, friends engineering a meeting for me, or guys who were friends first. |
| Jon | If I were in a club, bar, random hangout joint then believe me you would know my name. I introduce myself to everyone. Hi, I'm Jon I'm weird like that. Anyway so yeah I've done that plenty of times with varied results. I usually pick the women that are just as outgoing as me or at least open minded. |
| leamas | The woman I am with now was and is the most soul fulfilling experience I have ever had. I am finally complete. I met her walking down a hall, I did not know her, nor was I likely to have ever to talk to her after that day. For some reason, and this is on all that is holy, I told her, "I cannot stop looking at you. I am drawn to you. Can we meet for coffee. Oh by the way my name is *** what is yours?" It didn't necessarily work right then, but it drew her attention at my heart for her. We did date and it continues. |
| kevin urenda | nope. Wallflower. big-time. |