| drew1977 | flattered, lost oportunity |
| Savannah Haze | Yes, I have, fairly recently. It hasn't vaulted me into some sort of lovelorn upheaval, but it frustrates me in retrospect. I'm very happily married and I know this guy isn't someone I would have had a lasting relationship with, but DAMN it could have been fun for a little while. |
| Nonitta | I always feel flattered at first...then regret that it never came out. Who knows what would have happened? |
| TJ Holland | Yeah. It wasn't a good thing. It was a very angering revelation and it made me want to strangle the life out of some thing/one..... After he left, but before the divorce was final, my ex said he'd made a big mistake in asking for a divorce. Said he still loved me and wanted things back the way they were. I said 'No Way In Hell - I Warned You, Begged You, Not To Do It' but you did, so I went on with my life. That was 2 years ago. Three days ago he told me he wanted to ask me out this week. JEEZE!!!!!!!! (I'm very happily involved with the Best Man In The World (yup, sorry ladies, he's taken), so it was no contest) |
| Violet | Sort Of. I have an old ex that recently hinted that he shouldn't have let me go... that his biggest mistake was not letting our love grow... Sure, he tells me now that there's a rock on my finger. OY. Why do men do that?? Of course I love my fiance more than I can explain... so it was never any sort of consideration. But it got under my skin a little. |
| splatipus | At the time, I fancied the pants off him. So when I found out that he felt the same way, years later, there was a bit of regret at the lost opportunity. However, if I'd got together with him, I probably wouldnt have met my husband who I love to bits. I suppose its all a bit 'Sliding Doors' |
| Kirk | I think guys tend to be more on the outlook for potential romance that gals, so for me it generally took the form of someone I had flirted with just a little mighta reciprocated if I had gone with a little more gusto. So I find out when I sort of hint more about my feelings for them, and they tell me there had been a chance. One was right at the end of highschool before we headed off to college, and the other was a dormmate after a school year at college. So mostly I regret the lost possibilities...they were both funny, artistically talented, and cute. |
| Misti | I don't remember. There was this one guy from Alaska who told me straight up that he wanted to get to know me better. This was over tacos. It's funny because I had lusted after him the previous week. But suddenly I was frightened by the intensity in his eyes. I wasn't sure I wanted to have sex with him. He was too skinny and had one tattoo too many. I'm usually the one who is attracted to someone. It is rare that someone is attracted to me. I'm a strange girl. Better left alone. |
| Inflatable Sushi | feelings and emotions are the opiate of the masses |