| Inflatable Sushi | FDS spray (or at least a good bath) |
| kevin urenda | what I was getting at was keeping it new... ~sigh~ |
| RennieLorca | Everything about our lives involves adventure and challenges, so we're good at sharing life and love. We make communication very important so we don't miss any opportunities to share a fresh look at anything ..... Rennie |
| Misti | It's very important. I want to experience life with my dream lover and playmate, not just some guy I've grown accustomed to. So we shop together, act silly together, dance, celebrate, take road trips and plan trips to Vegas and New York. We spent two different nights taking erotic black and white pictures of me. That was fun. Chris pretends to be my pimp. He goes in chat rooms and has girls e-mail me their pictures. It's all in fun. We aren't really perverts. Well, maybe we are...but we aren't a threat to anybody else. |
| Chances | I prefer the shower. I would NEVER use an FDS spray! (Who knows what's in those things???) |
| spaded | well keeping it fresh is obvoiusly an important aspect, but I guess the hope is that when you find the truly right person, it always seems new without even trying.... Ok, then reality gets in the way and after so many years you have to work on it, I find that womens mags usually have some pretty good suggestions (but alas, I have never had to use them, hehe, or maybe I should of huh?). |
| Cyan | Keeping it roused up and stirred is very important. Some of us are so accustomed to settling for the "comfy shoe" type of relationship. It's like being with your own brother or sister. The only difference is that you're having sex. Yikes! Whenever I get involved in something serious, he'll have his life and I'll have mine. When the time comes to intermingle we won't feel smothered. There will be moments when we miss each other and wonder what the other is doing. Things of this nature will keep us wanting more. At least that's what I'm hoping for. |
| scqueen | By keeping it simple, I think. I had a mix of cd's playing last night - Taj Mahal, Diana Krall, Francine Reed, Andrea Bocelli, and Toni Price. I was upstairs on my computer and Joe was downstairs on his. He yelled up to me, "Hey! Would ya like to dance?" To which I tore down the steps and complied. It was impulsive and tender. We had a blast. |
| B.K. | By Jove SCQueen has it; It's enjoying the simple things of life. Their dancing or Kirk and Mo building a snowman together. It's the little things that count. |
| mbcutie88 | What works best for me is music. Right now, I'm listening to this song by Dru Hill called "I love you"-it's great during foreplay. It totally keeps things fresh for me and my boy. you guys should try it if you're into music as a turn on, http://www2.fanscape.com/druhill/redirects/iloveyouhi.asp I'd love to know if you tried it out or not and what the reaction was. |
| Kirk | I'm surprised how well goofy little surprises work with Mo, even not very imaginative ones. I think that helps. |
| Trout Almondine | good clean living |