From: <a href="/blend/av.cgi?id=872">cryingshame58</a><BR>
Date: 18 April 2004<P>

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From: <a href="/blend/av.cgi?id=900">RennieLorca</a><BR>
Date: 18 April 2004<P>

hey, bp!! welcome back. Was just thinking about some of your ocean/beach poetry ..... Rennie
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From: <a href="/blend/av.cgi?id=13">B.K.</a><BR>
Date: 18 April 2004<P>

CS58; I found what you're talking about I think, It's for sensitive skin and has the titanium dixoide in it right? It was on sale YES! I also wanted to buy the banana boat stuff ha just for the carrot juice hahahah. (kidding)<BR>
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Misti; It's none of our beezwax whats going on with you but no matter what, I wish you the best and hope you take really good care of yourself. It's major life changes that can take their toll. <BR>
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bk
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From: <a href="/blend/av.cgi?id=872">cryingshame58</a><BR>
Date: 18 April 2004<P>

BK,<BR>
Good deal!  When is your trip to Hawaii and how long will you be there?  Let me know if those sunsets are the most beautiful in the world as I have heard!<BR>
CS58
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From: <a href="/blend/av.cgi?id=1381">imaswimrok</a><BR>
Date: 18 April 2004<P>

I just submitted new work... comments welcome!
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From: <a href="/blend/av.cgi?id=391">sarahsehee</a><BR>
Date: 18 April 2004<P>

ok, so I've been leaving my poems on the blender on and off for a few years now, but I've never really kept up with the board so much. I'd like you're feedback though. How long does it take (in your opinion) to get over someone? an old boy/girlfriend or husband/wife, etc.? I'm sure someone's written a poem about getting over someone, but of course if you're writing a poem about that someone, guess it means you're not over 'em, but I'd like to know what you guys think
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From: <a href="/blend/av.cgi?id=23">Kirk</a><BR>
Date: 18 April 2004<P>

I dunno, what was that one rule of thumb from Sex in the City? Either twice as long as the relationship lasted, or half, I forget which. Probably half. :-&gt;
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From: <a href="/blend/av.cgi?id=1103">ladyinwaiting</a><BR>
Date: 18 April 2004<P>

kirk ~ if my memory is correct, when i taught divorce recovery we told the length of time to recover is one half the amount of time you were married...just trivia
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From: <a href="/blend/av.cgi?id=23">Kirk</a><BR>
Date: 18 April 2004<P>

Does "shacking up" time get put into that total?<BR>
Lessee...3 years if it does, 1 1/2 if not...
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From: <a href="/blend/av.cgi?id=900">RennieLorca</a><BR>
Date: 18 April 2004<P>

Gala~ Just got in to check e-mail. Sorry to learn of the loss of a talented poet and Semper Fi Brother today in Tony Spivey. He will be missed in all our communities ..... Rennie
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From: <a href="/blend/av.cgi?id=900">RennieLorca</a><BR>
Date: 18 April 2003<P>

For you, Gala, and for newbies and casual readers who haven't learned how to find authors on this site, this is one of Tony Spivey's works posted on Blender: <a href="/blend/wv.cgi?id=2003.03.05.17.09.13929">Without You</a> ..... Rennie <BR>
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From: <a href="/blend/av.cgi?id=1103">ladyinwaiting</a><BR>
Date: 18 April 2004<P>

kirk ~ i personally believe we all recover at our own personal speed...some relationships are harder to recover from than disolved marriage...i am sure you will do fine...the total time together is the counting time...but sounds as though you are already on your way...one of the best self help...recovery books to read is 'Recovery after your relationship ends'...by Brian Fisher (i think) but ask for it in book store, divorce recovery section...little slow in the beginning, but it will tell you to go ahead and skip to the sex section, after all that is what we want to read first, then return to the beginning...good read...
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