From: <a href="/blend/av.cgi?id=29">~Harem~</a><BR>
Date: 2 December 2004<P>

To LadyinWaiting,<BR>
<BR>
That is a loaded question for sure.<BR>
<BR>
But have you ever noticed that almost any outfit can<BR>
seem naughty, when it is someone that you are highly<BR>
attracted to ?<BR>
<BR>
If a guy has on blue jeans, or pleated black dress slacks,<BR>
are they not a turn on , when the person who is wearing<BR>
them - has special chemistry for you ?<BR>
<BR>
Now what about white BVD's on a man ?<BR>
<BR>
You know, those tighty-whiteys !!  They can be just<BR>
as seductive or even more so than leopard bikini underwear<BR>
on the same man.<BR>
<BR>
whoo....  Let me go....<BR>
<BR>
but I think you get my drift.<BR>
<BR>
<BR>
And then which is sexier,  I woman in a white fluffy,<BR>
sun dress, all cool and alluring, with the feminine<BR>
ruffles - or the same woman sweating on the beach in <BR>
a bikini ?   If she's got your chemistry for her -<BR>
then wether blue jeans, pegnoire, or perky pink polka<BR>
dot dress with the full flowing skirt - does it really<BR>
make a difference ?<BR>
<BR>
Ouch !<BR>
<BR>
If you know what I mean.<BR>
<BR>
.
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From: <a href="/blend/av.cgi?id=339">jack</a><BR>
Date: 2 December 2004<P>

ummm spandex and purple hair... anyone...?<BR>
<BR>
(dives back under rock to await incomming)<BR>
<BR>
lol<BR>
jack
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From: <a href="/blend/av.cgi?id=872">cryingshame58</a><BR>
Date: 2 December 2004<P>

Lady,<BR>
Tis the season to be a bit naughty and nice at the same time ;-)  I found a cute romantic Christmas card...it has an assortment of candies on the front of the card and at the top it reads, "This Christmas, remember, if you have an urge to nibble on something sweet"...then open up the card and it follows: ..."you know where to find me! Merry Christmas". BK's submit reminds me of my favorite gown..made of the same material, but it's small animal print...Did you buy something from VS? <BR>
CS58
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From: <a href="/blend/av.cgi?id=268">Misti</a><BR>
Date: 2 December 2004<P>

I dressed up for my boyfriend when we first got together. Now it's too cold and i'm too lazy. For the past week I've been wearing my yellow Curious George t-shirt and Victoria's Secret clearance catalog pj pants to bed. Doesn't stop the man from devouring me, thank gawd.
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From: <a href="/blend/av.cgi?id=1139">jwb71913</a><BR>
Date: 2 December 2004<P>

Just something for anyone who has ever been to a wedding!<BR>
<BR>
With all the sadness and trauma going on in the world at the moment, It is<BR>
worth reflecting on the death of a very important person who almost went<BR>
unnoticed last week. <BR>
<BR>
Larry La Prise, the man who wrote "The Hokey Pokey", died peacefully at age<BR>
93. <BR>
<BR>
The most traumatic part for his family was getting him into the coffin. <BR>
They put his left leg in. And then the trouble started. 
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From: <a href="/blend/av.cgi?id=13">B.K.</a><BR>
Date: 2 December 2004<P>

When earth and fire and water and air are all terrificaly sensual who needs all that fluff. But then again, if it lights makes the earth move.....why not. <BR>
<BR>
bk
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From: <a href="/blend/av.cgi?id=13">B.K.</a><BR>
Date: 2 December 2004<P>

Jim; I'd have hated to have been there if he had put his right leg out...ha<BR>
<BR>
bk
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From: <a href="/blend/av.cgi?id=77">Courtney</a><BR>
Date: 2 December 2004<P>

Gala-I feel for ya. If he is the reason for the divorce, you tell him he's an assbag. I don't know what the whole things about, but from what you write, you are a emotional and awesome woman. Take care of your little girl, hopefully she inherits your talent someday. and if you left him, good job. Its the holidays damn it. Good luck!
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From: <a href="/blend/av.cgi?id=254">chris</a><BR>
Date: 2 December 2004<P>

"I don't know what the whole things about,..." <BR>
<BR>
Saying that about a divorce situation and then making a value judgement does a disservice to all involved. Anyone who's been through it knows that only a death beats out divorce when it comes to stress and the emotional/psychological cost. The only people who should take sides are those who've actually lived it and/or know what they're talking about.
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From: <a href="/blend/av.cgi?id=1120">Chances</a><BR>
Date: 2 December 2004<P>

I think women do it to make themselves feel sexy. I see it as an affirming thing.
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From: <a href="/blend/av.cgi?id=1103">ladyinwaiting</a><BR>
Date: 2 December 2004<P>

thank you all for the response...<BR>
<BR>
harem ~ i agree...it's all in the chemistry...and i personally find 501's a great turn on...<BR>
<BR>
chances ~ yes it is to make ourselves feel sexy...whoo hoo!<BR>
<BR>
misti ~ i also agree with you...love the over sized hockey tea...and mi steveki thinks it is sexy too...<BR>
<BR>
bk ~ love the warm gown too...and yes...i am naked underneath mine too ;)<BR>
<BR>
cryingshame ~ it is always the season to be a just little naughty...<BR>
<BR>
gala ~ my heart is with you through this...hugs and kisses to you...<BR>
<BR>
jim ~ way funny :)<BR>
<BR>
jack ~ spandex and purple hair?  sounds interesting...will have to think on that one...<BR>
<BR>
wishing you all happiness and peace...
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From: <a href="/blend/av.cgi?id=10">galadrial</a><BR>
Date: 2 December 2004<P>

Thanks everyone...I do appreciate the support.<BR>
<BR>
I wish I could point to item a, item b, and say yup---this did it. But I believe in my heart that love has a shelf life. For some that date is forever...for others---well the goods are perishable.<BR>
<BR>
Were it not for kids, I wish we had renewable marriage licenses...say two years...five...and so forth? I think that would help people a lot...because one thing that really gets you is feeling like you blew it somehow...<BR>
<BR>
I'll be ok...Desi too.<BR>
<BR>

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From: <a href="/blend/av.cgi?id=10">galadrial</a><BR>
Date: 2 December 2004<P>

And while wenchwear has a place...i think most men love the look of a woman in a man'shirt---possibly with hair freshly washed?<BR>
<BR>
Oh yeah...with a smile.
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From: <a href="/blend/av.cgi?id=1139">jwb71913</a><BR>
Date: 2 December 2004<P>

Gala,  Interesting point on renewable licenses.  That would mean that a test would come into play.  A novel idea, and a good one.<BR>
<BR>
Re:  sexy clothing?  It's not what you wear, it's who you are and how your partner sees you.  I like the summer dress idea, much better than a sweaty bikini.  But then I'm attracted to grown women, who glow from the inside whatever they are wearing.  And I know I look better with my clothes on.
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