The Blender Survey Question

What is worse, from a romantic perspective - being alone, or being in a bad relationship?
B.K. Being alone is not easy, but much better than being in a bad relationship. You are wasting the time of the person that you are in the relationship with and they are wasting your time that could be spent with someone that does care about you.
blakey In my opinion, heartache is curable; heartbreak is treatable. I would much rather be alone and dream of what could be than be with the wrong person and feel obligated to share feeling and emotions that are, in the end, wasted.
~Harem~ Being in a bad relationship -
Leaves you NO Time to find the right person.
Being Alone - Does !

Some people spend so much time trying to make
a relationship work - that they spend their entire
life with wrong people - thus leaving them no
opportunity to find the Right Ones.

You notice that I say ONES (plural) as opposed to
ONE (singular) - That wasn't a mistake - but rather
a true FACT. Just as there are many wrong or bad
ones - there are just as many Good - Right ones.

Being Alone - will give you the time to find them.


~Harem~


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no white flag Better to lose a lover, than love a loser.
lovesick12 Being alone. At least if you're in a relationship you kind of have someone there. When you're alone not only are you expierencing heartache, but you're just so lonely and that makes every sad feeling that you have even worse
lovewhispers My belief is its worse being in a bad relationship. That can be demeaning,causing continual doubt witin yourself, creating a sense of "dis-ease". If you are centered and believe in yourself enough that you know you are worth more, it's better to be alone and hold out for something that will compliment who you are instead of destroy you.
naomi being in a bad relationship... That is the worst in my book for it can affect you emotionally, psychologically and physically
spunky70657 Being alone.
lilla .... in a relationship, yet still alone.
twisted_lie probably in a bad relationship,unless there's beating up and all,in my point of view i'd rather be in a bad relationship than be alone.
lonesome_day01 the worst thing is being alone when you THINK you're in a good relationship
mingles being alone... as sad as that is!
Kirk, Blender-Keeper bad relationship. it takes up all your time!
darwin i guess it's all relative, you can be in a bad relationship and still the intensity of loneliness. i think i would prefer the freedom of being alone though. none of the heartache, and for lack of a better word, drama.
aparajita being alone is easier, much easier, than being in a bad relationship. worse still is being in a relationship and still feeling alone... unable to communicate, unable to share life, unable to give and receive love. alone and lonely can be tolerable, feeling alone and lonely in a relationship has the potential to break a person due to unmet expectations.
chris Being secretly tortured at Gitmo isn't as bad as being in a bad relationship!
muryan Being in a bad relationship is far wose than being single. I'd rather be lonely alone than lonely when I'm loving someone.
spaded Bad relationships stink!
Chances I believe in my own good company. : )
Chances ... and am in a good relationship now. : D
badnews "I just crapped in my pants. Can I get into yours?"


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