| Jon | Time. |
| tremble | respect |
| Echolocation | Honesty and passion |
| Savannah Haze | Unquestionable trust. |
| Star of David | Lots of love and attention |
| spiritwic | trust-it's priceless, and therefore more valuable than anything you can buy... |
| cryingshame58 | i thought about this and I asked him...his exact words were, "i don't know if I can just say one thing...i'd say your love, your desire, your trust" |
| sassy | the freedom to be himself, instead of who I want him to be. |
| B.K. | Surrender. |
| scqueen | All that you possibly can - life is short. |
| tremble | hmmm k.... http://plato.stanford.edu/entries/respect/ |
| butterfly03 | unconditionally... the "Golden Rule". Trust, respect, non-judgement, love. My southern elders call this manners, yet it goes far beyond that. Romance is a secret ingredient too! |
| muryan | The most valuable thing I can give to my lover, is me. When we are together, my mind, attention, heart, soul, the very essence of me is with him. When we are with each other, with nothing left to do, I give him my self. My thoughts are with him, in the present moment, not bouncing around anywhere else. That is of course, what he deserves most in the world. |
| jolee | The most important thing you can give your lover is undivided attention when he or she needs it most - and support - a shoulder that will always be there to cry on, even when he or she is crying over something you think is silly or trivial. |
| hippiechic | My *heart* |
| Misti | Your cell phone number. |
| ~Harem~ | ``````` The most valuable thing that you can give to your lover - is - "Yourself". ``````` |
| kimlovein | your undivided attention |
| goldflakes | Your cat. If your lover feeds your cat, he loves you. If your lover runs over your cat, it was never meant to be. |
| Chances | I think the most valuable thing you can give your lover is the feeling that they can trust you. I'm not sure how one goes about this - but commitment and truth in word, deed and love probably contribute. |
| chris | Unconditional love. Not the other kind. |
| Kirk | VD...it's the gift that keeps on giving! Tee hee. Seriously, for me? It's "enough space". For her...probably affection and reassurance. |
| Violet | A baby? Okay, I'm seriously obsessed. I do think that watching your love become a tiny little life would be the most incredible gift. All raging hormones and baby desires aside... I would say companionship. It's good to know that you have someone who cares about every event in your life. |
| darwin | a sense of home, or belonging, that this is it, here, now and there's no place you'd rather be. |
| darwin | man, my last answer almost sounded like jesus jones... |
| naturalbornkillerblonde | To be trustworthy |
| Angel | The last piece of chocolate cherry cheescake. Mmmmmmmm.... |